My oldest daughter, Annie, just started middle school (or junior high as we called it) and it led to so many emotions as well as memories of when I was that age. Then, as if she read my mind, a former classmate and friend posted a picture of our old junior high school building on Facebook.And it was like it opened a door in my soul that had closed so long ago.
A flood of emotions and feelings came to me so fast that it literally took my breath away. I searched the picture for what seemed like minutes looking for any trace of something familiar.
A time when life was simple?
Then later that day while cleaning up the dinner mess after a typically long day in which my husband was slaving away at work and leaving me to my 14 hour shift with the girls, my mind wandered back to the “red brick building”.
I love my husband, our children and the life we are carving out but there are days when the laundry seems to never end, when you get rained on while carrying five bags of school supplies into your teenage daughter’s school, when you have back to back appointments and the four-year old decides that going pee in her pants is a better option than using the bathroom five feet away.
It’s those days that make me want to go back to junior high.
When boys were still icky and my friends were my universe.
Where I could be in my childhood home, of which I can never again visit. If I had known back then that I would never be able to revisit this home, I would have touched the walls more, sat and stared out my bedroom window looking at the “little woods” behind our home more and I would have inhaled its smell a little longer.
Where I can still smell cinnamon and other spices simmering on the stove.
Where I can still hear my mama and gramma talking at the kitchen table. I yearn for their voices now.
Where I can hear my dad’s radio in the garage playing Fleetwood Mac as he organizes his tools and my little brother is riding his BMX bike in the front yard.
Where I can lay on the couch with my dog, Fancy, and bury my face in her little furry head.
Where I can sit on my canopy bed and talk to God.
Where I can walk down the street to hang out with my childhood best friend Wendy, read Young Miss magazine and eat mass quantities of everything that is bad for you.
Where I can sit on my mama’s bed with my head on her lap and cry about the boy who got away, or about how I am failing Math. Probably more about the second one than the first.
Sometimes I wish I lived where I grew up.
So my children could walk the same hallways that I did at their age.
So I can relive my childhood through them.
So I can give them those wonderful small town memories.
But I know they are making their own memories here. I hope I am making their childhood a cozy and warm place to be like my mama and gramma did for me.
Did I ever tell you that I grew up with my gramma living with us my entire childhood into adulthood?
Best. Experience. Ever.
I hope I am making it special for my girls. So that someday they say to me……I wanna go back.
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